Monday, August 19, 2013
RCIA - "do you know what you're signing up for" - to prevent dropouts later catholic answers forum 4 dummies
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In all my years in RCIA I have never dropped anyone. I've had tons of people drop out when they found out that they had to go to the Marriage Tribunal to sort out their marriages, and I've had people drop out when they found out that the Church requires weekly Mass attendance, chastity according to one's state in life, etc., but I have never asked anyone to leave. The only reason I ever would is if someone were a disruptive influence. And in my classroom, you would have to be extremely disruptive before I would throw you out. I'm used to working with teenagers, so I'm very thick-skinned.
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(I was not a difficult student, just for the record.
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Certainly the Sacraments ARE Important to catholics; but with the same certitude, they are most often not recogonized or understood by non-catholic-Christians. Therefore they have little initial dignifiance to them beyond trying to comprehend WHY they seem to SIGNIFIANT to us My expereice with them leaving is more inclined to the following: [not necessarly in sequence of importance to them] Unqualified teacher [s] Liberal / Progressive [not much different than what they are running from] teachers An inability to freely ask the questions on there minds and hearts Either NOT fully teaching our beliefs or explaining them well Teachers not provinding "evidence" of our beliefs so it comes off as just personal opinions They find it "TOO Structured" Not making a sufficient effort of having friendly and personal Fellowship durring RCIA [a HUGE ISSUE, both in RCIA and within the Catholic Community afterwards] Typlically they come from some sort of "fellowship church" where often, beliefs are on on par or secondary to "Christian Fellowship" Because we Catholics Do focus WORSHIP on GOD and that is the PRIMARY goal and purpose for our Mass; the lack of "Fellowship in our Worship" is a dramatically different FOCUS. Then because our catholi Fellowship varies soooo much from prish to parish; with the emphasis being on outside of Mass fellowship, that they are not INVITED SPECIFICALLY to join, they often [usually] suffer a SHOCK-lack of fellowship. They don't know about the ldies groups, Kof C, Bible study ect. HUGE error on our part. Or as you suggested; not being open to the Holy Spirit trying and offering to work in their lives. God Bless you, patrick [PJM]
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un 19, '13, 11:04 pm
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Yes, since pastors and deacons are part of the church.
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Chapter 21 continues because it says, "Jesus revealed Himself again..." and then proceeds to list the Apostles to whom He revealed Himself before in the upper room that Easter morning. Matthew 18:18, and in much of the Gospels there is always a distinction between the crouds who follow Jesus and His disciples otherwise called the "twelve". Your interpretation seems to stretch the meaning of the term beyond it's intended meaning so as to suit your theology. Where in the Bible does it say that the congregation has the right to expel its deacons and pastors? I simply can't find it. And in Matthew again Jesus is speaking about the apostles, not the congregation. In fact throughout Paul's letters he commanded the churches to obey their pastors as if they were Paul himself speaking. It just doesn't seem to follow from the Bible.
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As to your question, there are valid grounds for which church leaders should be removed. Different churches have different ways and processes to address the discipline and removal of clergy. Some congregational churches provide for the congregation to make those decisions. Other types of churches have outside authority to intervene in the affairs of a local church.
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Yes. We are to give honor and respect to our pastors and leaders in the faith.
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When being repentent and having the priest receive your confession. Thats the only way to know for certain.
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But the Bible doesn't only say "honor and respect", it says, "obey your leaders and submit to them."(Heb 13:17).
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"A sin which is not unto death . . . . and life shall be given to him. It is hard to determine what S. John here calls a sin which is not unto death, and a sin which is unto death. The difference cannot be the same as betwixt sins that are called venial and mortal; for he says, that if a man pray for his brother who commits a sin that is not unto death, life shall be given to him: therefore such a one had before lost the life of grace, and been guilty of what is commonly called a mortal sin." (Haydock) |
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Judging from your statements I think something needs to be clarified. A Catholic priest is not there to pronounce that one is "unforgiven, unpardoned, or even to be punished". That is God's job. He is there to offer absolution; to be a minister of God's mercy. The only time one does not receive absolution is if it is very clear that the person confessing intends to persist in that sin. The most common example in this day and age would be one who confesses that he/she is living with another outside of the bonds of marriage but has no intention of moving out and changing that situation. In such a case the priest cannot offer absolution. Even then, however, the Church always hopes in God's mercy and does not limit God's mercy to the ordinary means of receiving this grace. The Catholic Church has never proclaimed that any particular person is in hell. It regularly proclaims that certain persons have been saved and are in heaven; those are our saints.
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Hebrews 13:17 Obey your leaders and submit to them; for they are keeping watch over your souls, as men who will have to give account. Let them do this joyfully, and not sadly, for that would be of no advantage to you. Herein lies the problem: submit. To a person? Oh no, no, no. I'll submit to a book that I can interpret in a way that I see fit. That way if I don't like the person leading my congregation I can leave and find another congregation that is more aligned to my views. Or better yet, I can lead my own congregation the way I see fit, because I know exactly how to interpret this book... sigh...
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1) They are living in sin, 2) No matter how much they ask God, they are not forgiven until they amend their manner of life.
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Only we Catholics are sure to have our sins forgiven or not in the confessional by a Catholic Priest, and by no other Church. As you know, they don't have the fulness of the faith to receive absolution. that we do and this is only through the Grace of God that we do, handed on down to us by Our Lord to the Apostles and the successors of the Apostles to our local Parish Priests. EO, and some Anglicans may confess, receive absolution by their priests and do penance, however, it is only a copy of what the Catholic Church has done from the beginning with Authority from Jesus Christ to do so. I know you think I am wrong for say a "copy" and not knowing that their sins are truly forgiven, perhaps they are but does one really want to take that risk. Tell me, if you could not find a Catholic Church nearby to receive absolution from a Catholic Priest, would you enter an Anglican Church that was nearby, for your absolution? I think not, for one you're not Anglican and because you truly know, it is only a copy without the fulness, without truly knowing that your sins our forgiven you/us. We should not ask if "Are you given a sign? Is it a feeling?" What is that. We should tell them the Truth! For many don't no the truth and those that do, well, it is their free will to choose to come home or not. And I am not saying that the Protestants are not saved, because they are saved by the Catholic Church. Ufam Tobie |
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But lets stick to your comment for a minute. How does your faith community absolve one from their sins? How do they forgive or retain one's sins? Admonishing someone for the way in which they are living is not the same as forgiving one's sins or retaining them.
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the time come when those who should oblige the servant of God, do the
contrary to him, and what degree of patience and humility he has then,
that is the degree he has and no more." - St. Francis of Assisi
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